[troubledteen16]

Okay so me and my mom went to Best Buy a couple of weeks ago on a Sunday and this man named Milton asked if we needed help and I we did for my iPhone. So after we start talking my mom left to get some water so it was just me and him alone but he was busy seeing what was wrong with his phone. Anyway after my mom came back and he was explaining how my mic was broke or whatever, so after that he asked how old I was and I said 16 and then my mom asked how old he was and he said 27! Lol I was so sad because he was so sexy and then he started talking about how old how his wife was (which she was like 36) and his baby and his 18 year old step son. He was still flirting with me and afterwards he was showing me cases and whatever. But ever since that happened I can't stop thinking about him. I've flirted with boys before but it was this one was special. He was so cute and sexy I still can't stop thinking about him. So tomorrow I'm going to Best Buy again to see about my phone and hopefully I will see him. Does anybody have any advice on why am I so obsessed or what should I do if I do see him tomorrow?

[Homegirl 50]

You're 16 and you're not in love, you think this older guy is cute and your teenage hormones are out of control.
He's married and has a child and you need to stay away from him.
You can cause him to lose his job and his family if he is stupid enough to pay any attention to you. If you see him you do nothing. Do what you need to do in that store and take your tail back home. Your age and immaturity is flashing all over the place.

[joypulv]

Try to think of it this way: to me and probably a lot of us here, it sounds downright embarrassing, and to be blunt, pathetic.
Your title alone, saying 'in love,' don't you realize this is nothing at all about love? Crush, at best.

You would be making a total fool of yourself either way. If he's just flirting, you are one kind of fool. If he gets involved with you, you are putting him in deep trouble, and you are a much worse kind of fool.

[ScottGem]

You aren't in love with this guy. He was being a good salesperson by engaging you in the service. Nothing more than that. So you do nothing more.

[Jake2008]

Don't make a fool of yourself.

He's a married man, and a step father. He's off limits, and not available, and should be so far under your radar that your nose is skimming ant hills.

Control yourself and your emotions, and don't go looking for trouble, because you will find it.

[talaniman]

Be nice, get your phone, say thanks, go home. Nice fantasy crush, but that's all it is.

[J_9]

Oh come on now. You can't be in love with someone you don't even know.

This man has a job and a family. He is not interested in a child that is younger than his own step-child.

Stop acting like a fool already.