[shellyp_3001]

Hello Doc,

I am 26 year old girl. I am heavyweight and doing gym since 4 months. I had boy friend and we had sex with intercourse may be 2-3 times before a 8-9 months. Because of some family reasons, now we are not able to marry each other and we have to end our relation.
Now I have to marry some other person, but I am worried that will that man get to know I am not virgin and had sex before.
Is there any way that I can hide this things from my future husband.

[Curlyben]

Nope.

[shellyp_3001]

No for which thing. Can you explain something in detail.

[Curlyben]

Is there any way that I can hide this things from my future husband.

That's what I answered.
In your culture there is an expectation of bleeding on the wedding night, clearly this isn't going to happen

[excon]

Hello s:

I don't know much about women, but I wonder if you hold yourself TIGHT when he tries to enter, you MIGHT bleed enough to fool him.

excon

[joypulv]

All you can do is tell him (when you don't bleed) that not all hymens stay intact, even in virgins. That's not a lie.
If he questions you about your past, what you say or don't say is up to you.
For thousands of years, women have hidden a few drops of animal blood somewhere to put on the sheets during the few seconds when their husband is exhausted and doesn't notice what you are doing.
Often it was hidden in a bedpost top that was scooped out inside, and the top could be removed.
Mothers and aunts conspired with girls to do this, so that the husband didn't send his wife home or beat her to death.
They did it even if the girl was a virgin, because they knew that not all virgins bleed.