[jojo1351]

I am 17 and my boyfriends 20 we have been together about 5 months and we have been having sex for 2 months now. The last time I had my period was in August and we are now in October... every time we have sex he pulls out or he doesn't even reach climax... about a week or two ago I took two clear blue digital pregnancy tests and they both came out negative but I still haven't had my period? I have no symptoms plus my periods super irregular so I don't know what to think enymore am I pregnant or not? I need opinions, help?

[CravenMorhead]

My opinion is that's statutory rape. If I am not mistaken.

That aside. You should close your legs until you're ready to either have a baby or you're mature enough to use birth control. Condoms. Hormonal. Pull-out or withdrawal isn't a form of birth control. It lessens the chance, but the chance is still high. Until you're ready to be a mother you need to take control of your reproductive system!

That's my opinions.

You have a high likely hood of being pregnant. The home pregnant test are usually pretty good, but can give false negatives. I would get a test from your doctor. I would act now, until you get a definitive answer from your doctor, as if you were.

[ScottGem]

ANY time there is penile insertion there is the potential for pregnancy. You can reduce the possibility but not eliminate it. And the pull out method is the least effective way to reduce the risk.

So yes, it is possible that you are pregnant. Depending on when in Aug you had your last period, you may only be a few weeks late. So taking a test 2 weeks ago may have been to soon. I would take the tests again. Or see your doctor.

If pregnancy is not desired, then you are being foolish.

As far as statutory rape is concerned, there are areas where the age of consent is 18 and where it would be illegal for him to have sex with you.

[jojo1351]

in the state of Texas that is the age of consent so there is no problem except that I might be pregnant

[CravenMorhead]

in the state of Texas that is the age of consent so there is no problem except that I might be pregnant

Okay. Cancel the first line. The rest reads right.

[cwilliams1990]

For now on I would be sure to use some form of birthcontrol whether it be condoms or whatever... I agree take a test. If you are normally ireegular then it still could be coming. Relax.. Not saying this is something to shrug off... but stress and anxiety can alter you menstrual cycle.

[jojo1351]

I already took two test and they came out negative... and yeaa I know I'm getting birthing control soon

[Fr_Chuck]

You must always (or should) test in the morning as soon as you wake up. That is when the test is most effective. Some women do not show positive till 2nd or 3rd month so yes it is still possible.

After that, pull out is not very effective. There is still sperm often in the early fluids, so pregnancy can easily happen.

[jojo1351]

I took them right when I woke up...