Originally Posted by
Wondergirl
Stop. Right now. Stop making the first move all the time. Back off. Stop being so needy. Find other activities to do instead of texting her or calling her or being with her. Do not make her the center of your world. You are pushing her away.
What else interests you? What do you have fun doing?
Hi, thanks for the reply... Yes I think it would be better if I stop. There's a times that I can stop myself but there's a times too that I cnt help it but to feel hurt over and over. I gave her everything I can I find time for her if I don't have one. And still, she doesn't do anythng to make me feel okay. Yes I try not to focus on her when I go to work and go out with my very few real friends but I cnt help it but to think of her.
I know wer not meant to be but I'm trying to work this out but I don't see her trying as well for telling me that she don't care and cbf. It really hurts me.
Originally Posted by
talaniman
Are you as needy as you sound? Or do you need a better social life without her? Maybe both.
I admit they I am a needy person, sometimes I try not to but there's times that I can't help it. I shower her affection and everything but when it comes.to the point that there's something wrong and she knows that I'm hurt she doesn't do anything. But when she's hurt I do everything to make her feel okay and yey she still says that I'm annoying and I should leave her alone. So I left her alone but she will never talk or do 1st move until I give in and text her.