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    kaykaykay847 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 3, 2013, 03:11 PM
    Doesn't even try to give me an orgasm
    I'm so frustrated. He orgasms but does nothing to give me one. I just can't get myself to ask him why he doesn't pkeasure me. I'm getting very angry .
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    CravenMorhead Posts: 4,532, Reputation: 1065
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    Oct 4, 2013, 08:08 AM
    How old are you?

    Why can't you ask him why? Have you asked him to play, "Lady comes first?"

    In any relationship communication is the key, whether it is to talk about dinner, work, or sex. Sex, still be reasonably taboo, is really hard to talk about because it is so personal and hidden from the world and as such is really embarrassing to talk about.

    So get over the embarrassment and talk to him. Figure it out. He's not recognizing that your frustrated and asking a internet help desk isn't going to help anything. You need his participation.

    If you're not willing to talk to him then the following will happen.
    1). You'll become increasingly frustrated and it will get to a point that you will dump him.
    2). You'll find someone else and things will be good. Until SEXUAL ISSUE pops up. (Ie, he put it in my butt, likes it when you wank him with your feet, wants to call you Mrs. Rosevelt).
    3). You're lack of communication will cause you to get frustrated.
    4). Go to 1).

    Good luck.
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
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    Oct 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
    If you can not ask him or talk to him about sex, you have no business having sex with him.

    It is easy, you talk to him, tell him, the sex ride is over, and you want to have some sexual pleasure also.

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