[alzeledo008]

I have known this girl from 6 months. We had recently made plans of moving together in an apartment, then suddenly she backed out of it and she told she would feel bad if I paid everything for her. So she decided not to do this move. She told me she need to find a job before we move in together and get married.

Now I have tried to call her and texted her, 2 weeks has passed and still no response. What is happening to her? Maybe with your experience you can help me see what is going on.

[talaniman]

She decided to do her thing, whatever that is without you and you should take the hint and leave her alone. She changed her mind and decided its none of your business.

And be very wary if she suddenly appears with excuses and sweet word. Don't fall for her crap ever again.

[Sinquisitive]

It sounds like when it came time for a bigger commitment, she got scared off. Give her some space. She might need some time, or she might decide she's just not ready for that level of commitment or relationship.

If it's the latter, you've got to respect her decision and move on.