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    Sep 27, 2013, 08:19 PM
    Trying to get pregnant
    Hi.. I need help. Me and my boyfriend for 5 years have been doing unprotected sex many times already. When I mean unprotected, I mean no withdrawal, condoms, pills. None of it. We have been doing it many times already but my pregnancy test always turned negative. Me and my boyfriend are planning to get pregnant but it seems impossible. Im starting to think that one of us has infertility problems. But just this month, last Sept. 22, we had unprotected sex again but when we had sex we noticed that I bled a very little amount of blood. We just ignored it thinking that it is normal but then after a few days, I'm having thick, sticky, whitish discharges on my underwear even until now. It causes me to change my undies every now and then and it's itchy. I tried to Google it and found that I might have yeast infection which is common in pregnant women. Please help. I want to get pregnant already. My boyfriend wants a baby boy and I'm so sad thinking that it might turn negative again this time.
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    Sep 27, 2013, 08:30 PM
    How long have you been trying? It often takes from one to three years to get pregnant, especially if you are stressing over it (then it takes even longer).
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    Sep 27, 2013, 08:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How long have you been trying? It often takes from one to three years to get pregnant, especially if you are stressing over it (then it takes even longer).

    We have been trying since last year but my PT always turn negative. My next problem is my discharges which is itchy all the time. Is this yeast infection? Im planning to buy OTC creams if this is really yeast infection but I'm scared that I might be pregnant and hurt my baby. I know I'm so dumb to think that I'm pregnant this early but I don't want to add another problem to me trying to get pregnant.
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    Sep 27, 2013, 08:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by faith_07 View Post
    We have been trying since last year but my PT always turn negative. My next problem is my discharges which is itchy all the time. Is this yeast infection? Im planning to buy OTC creams if this is really yeast infection but im scared that i might be pregnant and hurt my baby. I know im so dumb to think that im pregnant this early but i dont want to add another problem to me trying to get pregnant.
    If I were you, I'd go to a doctor to be totally safe and find out what the itchy problem is.
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    Sep 27, 2013, 08:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    If I were you, I'd go to a doctor to be totally safe and find out what the itchy problem is.

    Thanks wondergirl for the help. I really appreciate it. :) I just hope me and my boyfriend don't have infertility issues. I think I'll try consulting an OB and getting a pap smear as soon as my boyfriend is done with all the work. Thanks again:).
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    Sep 27, 2013, 09:05 PM
    What will happen if you have a baby girl?
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    Sep 28, 2013, 04:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    What will happen if you have a baby girl?
    Hi teacher jenn,if I will have a baby girl, I will still be happy. Me and my boyfriend will still welcome her into our life. Whether boy or girl, the fact that she comes from me I will still love her. We are trying our best to get pregnant so it really doesn't matter if it's a he or she. My boyfriend just wants a baby boy so that he can have a buddy but it's not really an issue.:)
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    Sep 28, 2013, 04:40 AM
    You need to talk to your doctor and start tracking your actual ovulation period ? Not using online charts. ( if you are using them) that will tell you what dates are best to have sex, to make conception easier.

    Next why are you taking so many pregnancy tests ? You should not be testing until you are 2 week late for your period, are you that late often ?

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