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    rocksanime Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 20, 2013, 01:37 PM
    Why would he do this?
    So I've known this guy for a little over 2 years now. We're good friends and we hang out and talk every time we meet. I know him really well, actually. Like how he acts like he's really confident and needs lessons in humility but he's actually in need of confidence. :( But hey, he does acting...

    I know him from my debate team that meets up every week. About 6 months ago we had agreed to be partnered for Parliamentary debate because we're both really good debaters.

    He was acting normally, teasing me an awful lot about that fox song that's gone viral on the internet as always, but he suddenly changed. We and some other members of our debate club went to this lecture about how to debate, and they set up rules that partnered kids couldn't date each other. The minute that lecture was finished I went to the restroom and when I came back, he was talking with this other girl about partnering for Parliamentary debate.

    And eventually we changed our agreement so that he could trial with other people. And now it looks like he'll really be partnering with that other person he talked to at the lecture.

    He's acting a lot differently recently. If we're in a big group he doesn't bring me into the conversation or talk to me as much. But when it's just the two of us he's open like always.

    I guess I'm just confused. Does he like me... maybe? I don't really know why he's doing what he's doing but could anyone explain it to me?
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    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
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    Sep 20, 2013, 01:45 PM
    Did he partner with someone else in the hopes that he could date you? Maybe he is not sure what he wants. Ask him, tell him you feel confused about how he treats you different and you just want to know how things are between you because you don't want to read anything into anything.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Sep 20, 2013, 08:02 PM
    You liked the attention and maybe read too much into it is what likely happened.

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