[dadame]

I been daiting with my boyfriend since 7 months ago, he is divorce, one month ago his exwife asked him to come back together, we live together on Minnesota and she lives on seattle, they met together to talk about this situation in a differente citie, the whole weekend... I told him that I wasn't agree because he was in an other relationship, but anyway he did it... and he promissed to not sleep with her... well I told him that after that reunion he should be finishing one of this two situations (she or I), so he came back saying that he loves me and want to stay with me... a week later I found on his cellphone that she is going to australia for a month and want him to go with her, he responded to her to let her know the days that he should take of... and another text with a different girl saying that his body is ready to have sex with her!. and all kinds of sexting!. I exploted when I saw that and was ready to leave but he started saying that he never sleep whit this second girl, and it was a game, he apologize with me and promissed to me to not do it again, also stated that he won't go with the exwife to australia... do I'm doing right on staying or should I leave him??

[odinn7]

He's playing you and you're allowing him to do it. He spent the whole weekend with his ex wife to talk about why they should or shouldn't get back together? What do you think they did for that whole weekend together? You think they just talked? Then you see him asking her when she's going so he can take those days off... then he's sexting another girl but telling you it's a game...

Come on now, wake up.

[Oliver2011]

That is your decision and only your decision.

A lot of people are only apologetic because they were caught cheating. He was mentally cheating even if there was no physical cheating. Do you trust him enough? Are you always going to check his cellphone for sexting and inappropriate messages? That's not a great relationship if you always have to check because you can't trust him.