[ng97]

I don't know what's wrong with me honestly. It started around 6 months ago and since then my sexual drive has just disappeared. I'm only 16 and yea I shouldn't be having sex but aren't I a little too young just lose my sexual drive? My boyfriend tries really hard to make me horny and it doesn't work. I'm still attracted to him I want to be able to get in the mood but I just can't anymore. I feel terrible for it too, like I'm failing him in a way and I need help on what to do and what may be wrong. Has anybody else had this happen to them and know how to fix it? Because the problem isn't my boyfriend its me and its really bothering me.so if there's any way one of you can help or shed some insight id appreciate it

[smoothy]

Maybe your brain is starting to make you bleieve... rightfully that your boyfriend is just usuing you for sex. Yes... ALL young guys are like that... I was once one... so I'm speaking as an authority on the average teenage boys mind.

You do know any time you have sex you can end up pregnant... even using two forms of protection... I bet the door wouldn't even hit him on the butt on his way out of it when he finds out if that happens.

[Wondergirl]

The best solution is NOT to have sex until you are 18 or even 21 and in a permanent, loving relationship. Then things will be okay. Your brain and body know things aren't right, so your sex drive has shut down for your own protection.