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    cc8808 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 21, 2013, 08:22 AM
    Is he over me? Or should I move on? What do I do?
    Okay I was with my ex boyfriend for about a year we were constantly arguing I would catch him doing things he wasn't suppose to be doing, we just ended our relationship last month but I find it so hard to get over him I knew he loved me he stopped hanging out with all friends and quit the partying scene for me but I feel like he's fed up I tried calling him and he acts like a like its not him and usually its him blowing up my phone I stopped calling him about 3 weeks ago I guess my sister seen him around and told him I'm not doing anything with my life that I'm just sitting home so he called me 3 days ago yelling at me saying what am I doing with my life I started crying and hung up I got in a fight with my sister for getting in my business and she called him and told him so he came by and dropped some juice off lol (everytime I was sad or mad I love drinking juice ) I looked like a reck when he came I was so nervous and shaking but he didn't seem nervous at all he hugged me and kissed me on my cheecks so that day I called him later on asking to hang out and he said it wasn't a good idea maybe next time so I havrnt texted him or called him since yesterday he texted me saying am I ready to find a job and go to school today ? & I asked him are you going to help me out and so he brought me some job applications I got ready and when o went out there he was shaking trying to explain what to do and I asked him why are you shaking and he just laugh and says he nervous I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said it wasn't a good idea next time ughh ! He's taking it better than I am so I go inside and I know he's expectibg me to call him and text him but I'm not so he texted me saying if you get both jobs your going to work them both is he just texting me because he wants to talk or just cares about my future I seen that he's talking to a lot of his ex girlfriends on fb Idk what to do do I just move on take him out my life for good is he over me.?
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    Aug 21, 2013, 08:24 AM
    All I needed to read was the first sentence before it was clear... You need to move on... first rule of life you need to understand.. if you are fighting all the time over anything... then its not meant to be.

    Move one... you will get over him... and you will do it sooner than you think. Before long you will be seeing the point I was trying to get at quickly... you didn't have a relationship to speak of that you should be getting upset over losing.
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    Aug 21, 2013, 08:25 AM
    I have to be honest... I tried reading this, I really did. I had to stop though because there is no punctuation at all in here and I just can't be bothered to try and figure out where a sentence stops and starts. It is all a jumbled mess and too confusing to read it.

    Try using the edit button and make it easier to read, you will get better answers and more of them.
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    Aug 21, 2013, 08:36 AM
    I need advice please read all
    >apparently rewritten with added punctuation and caps<

    Okay I was with my ex boyfriend for about a year, we were constantly arguing I would catch him doing things he wasn't suppose to be doing. We just ended our relationship last month but I find it so hard to get over him, I knew he loved me because he stopped hanging out with all friends and quit the partying scene for me, but I feel like he's fed up. I tried calling him and he acts like a , like its not him and usually its him blowing up my phone I stopped calling him about 3 weeks ago I guess my sister seen him around and told him I'm not doing anything with my life, that I'm just sitting home so he called me 3 days ago yelling at me saying what am I doing with my life? I started crying and hung up I got in a fight with my sister for getting in my business and she called him and told him. So he came by and dropped some juice off lol (everytime I was sad or mad I love drinking juice ) I looked like a reck when he came, I was so nervous I was shaking but he didn't seem nervous at all he hugged me and kissed me on my cheecks so later that day, I called him asking to hang out and he said it wasn't a good idea, maybe next time. So I haven't texted him or called him since yesterday he texted me saying am I ready to find a job and go to school today ? & I asked him are you going to help me out and so he brought me some job applications I got ready and when o went out there he was shaking trying to explain what to do and I asked him why are you shaking and he just laugh and says he nervous I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said it wasn't a good idea next time ughh ! He's taking it better than I am so I go inside and I know he's expectibg me to call him and text him but I'm not so he texted me saying if you get both jobs your going to work them both is he just texting me because he wants to talk or just cares about my future I seen that he's talking to a lot of his ex girlfriends on fb Idk what to do do I just move on take him out my life for good is he over me.?
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    Aug 21, 2013, 09:12 AM
    It sounds to me like he may have found someone else or at least moved on. He is probably still concerned about you and cares about you and this is why he tries to help you. It does sound like the romance part of it is all over though. The fighting and whatever else was probably just too much and split the two of you apart and he has found a way to move forward. You should too.

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