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    Apr 3, 2007, 01:45 PM
    Confuse about the girl whom I love
    How to convience a girl for love?

    I love a girl who is very close friend of mine. I don't know what to do. She want to keep only friendship relation, I am confused about whether she loves me or not. We know each other from last 2 yrs. I had propose her thrice within 8 months. Her answer is same, to be a good friend. I don't want to loose her. I want to marry her.

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    Apr 3, 2007, 01:59 PM
    It seems to me her mind is made up and you should accept her decision.
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    Apr 3, 2007, 02:08 PM
    Need few clarification :

    1) If anyone care you & help you in each an every aspect of your life, what will be your ans.
    2) I agree, If she had made her mind. I had propose her thrice, still a girl like to be close.
    3) will any best friend will care you if you did not had your food.

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    Apr 3, 2007, 02:28 PM
    You are permanently tagged as a "friend". Move on it isn't going to happen. See if she has any friends that might be interested.
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    Apr 3, 2007, 02:33 PM
    People like hard to get... be there for her... how can you marry her if you have't been even dating her? Yes I know you know her.. but when freindship turns into a relationship it's a little more different... if I would be in your shoes.. I would date other girls around make her think your over her... she might relise she has feelings for you after she thinks she lost you.. good luck


    Just rmr you can't ever force some one to be with you... relationship will not be healthy at all
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    Apr 3, 2007, 02:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stunning07
    people like hard to get... be there for her... how can you marry her if you have't been even dating her? yes i know you know her.. but when freindship turns into a relationship its a little more different... if i would be in your shoes.. i would date other girls around make her think your over her... she might relise she has feelings for you after she thinks she lost you.. good luck


    just rmr you can't ever force some one to be with you... relationship will not be healthy at all
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    Apr 3, 2007, 02:43 PM
    Leave her alone make her feel like your over her. Its hard.. but what else is there left to try?
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    Apr 3, 2007, 02:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stunning07
    leave her alone make her feel like your over her. its hard.. but what else is there left to try?

    I had done this recently. I am not calling her from last 1 month & above . She was very angry. There are few problems due to that she is not ready to make her mind.
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    Apr 3, 2007, 02:53 PM
    If she is angry that at least shows something, don't completely quit talking to her.. limit it down for a whille see how she reacts make it seem like your busy and got other things besides her... she might come around just don't show any affection to her what so ever! Eveyone likes a challenge and your giving her none what so ever
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    Apr 3, 2007, 03:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stunning07
    if she is angry that atleast shows something, dont completly quit talking to her.. limit it down for a whille see how she reacts make it seem like your busy and got other things besides her... she might come around just dont show any affection to her what so ever! eveyone likes a challenge and your giving her none what so ever
    Within in a month she had called me 4 to 6 times. Few days before she was saying that she had miss her best friend & the responsibility is given to me. I am not replying any sms of her.
    Same day we had a debat about the relationship. I said I will never be backward & she said that she want to be my best friend. I said her to lived this to destiny.

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