[poweruff]

I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend. We have been dating for a month now and we are headed for our second month but lately its like he gets annoyed when I try to talk to him. It's like I bother him and I really love him and its like his pushing me away. It hurts and I don't know why his acting this way. He complains about me not talking to him and he thinks I have moods. I don't know if I can even talk to him about anything anymore. I have a feeling his using me or just cheating. I just don't know anymore.

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[N0help4u]

When he complains about you not talking remind him that he doesn't want you to when you do.
Are these the same reasons you broke up for before? Tell him to tell you when he THINKS you are in a mood so that you can explain to him actually how you are feeling instead of the way he takes it. Very likely he is the one with the mood. Probably better to move on and remember the reasons you broke up.

[talaniman]

How old are you and what broke you up before? Or is it the same now as it was before?

[Jake2008]

Trust your instinct, and don't be drawn into thinking that it is normal and healthy for a couple to have no meaningful communication.

That is no way to start a relationship, or work on a relationship; without talking, you have nothing to build on.

Stay strong, and expect that what you ask of him is not at all unwarranted. Sharing lives is part of the relationship, and it seems to me he must have a reason for not wanting to participate and share his life, thoughts, feelings, plans etc. with you.

[poweruff]

I'm 16 and my current boyfriend is 19 his doing his first year we his been acting weird for the past 3 week he doesn't say he loves me like he use it and when I want to flirt he shuts me down we had a fight and I told him how I felt about the way he has been treating me bhe thinks all of this I'm feeling is in my head and it hurts everyone says I should let go of him if isn't going to care for me or take me srsly I love him so much and I don't know what to do even if I had to let him go I wouldn't know how to call it off

[creahands]

Try using punctuation so we will know where a sentence ends.

Hard to answer when having to set to stopping points for the sentences.

Chuck

[N0help4u]

Doesn't sound like you are the one going to call anything off or let him go. Sounds like he may have lost interest. I won't even get into the age difference since I don't know what country or state you are in.

[odinn7]

Sounds like he is trying to get you to break up with him. Why would you sit here and say you love him so much when he treats you this way? You're 16... you have your whole life ahead of you, plenty of time to find the right one.