[whiteh2162]

I'm currently pregnant to start this whole thing off. People say during pregnancy you have hormones but I'm pretty sure I have every right to to be mad/upset right now with out it being just a pregnancy hormonal thing.

My boyfriend and I got into this fight three months ago but we got through things and he feels bad for some mean things he said to me, but has treated me pretty much like gold since this fight we got into.(Nothing physical !)

After this argument my family found out and he wasn't welcome to my house anymore till my mother had spoken to him, and she was disappointed. To see him I have to go to a park, which is by far weird for me and I have anxiety so I don't really like going to parks makes me feel uncomfortable and sometimes panicky. I have an older sister who has a boyfriend and they have a kid together, but before my niece my sister's boyfriend had gotten into a few arguments with my Mother and Step Dad and has said some rude things that shouldn't of been said and he has gotten away with it every time almost like nothing happened! He has also picked arguments with everyone else in this house hold as well when he's angry and not thinking right. It's annoying how he gets no punishment at all, and he's been dramatic and fought with my sister in front of the family.

I'm just mad/upset and really just want my Mom to talk to my boyfriend get things taken care of and for him to be welcomed back to the house before our baby is here. Question is, should I talk to my Mom about how I feel ? And sorry for this being so long I just needed to fill you guys in.

[Fr_Chuck]

It appears you and boyfriend has had problems. And mom family do not like him.

So why are you living at home ? Why are you not living with boyfriend or on your own.

Learn a lesson, does not matter why or what or how, this is their house, so it is their rules.

[joypulv]

During the time you took to write this, you could have indeed asked your mother why she feels the way she does.

Why are two grown daughters having babies while living with parents? Maybe they are just fed up with the whole pattern repeating itself, and you were unlucky to be second.

[Jake2008]

I'd like to know why you are living with your parents, and not your boyfriend.

How old are you?

As long as you are under their roof, and I assume, they are supporting you, you don't have much choice about what you do with your life, including seeing the father of your baby.

What are your plans to improve the situation. Your parents talking this out with your boyfriend aren't going to change bigger problems.

For example- how are you and your boyfriend going to support a baby, together. Are you thinking about when the baby arrives and he's not allowed to help and support you?

What are your immediate plans, and what are your long term plans for raising this child? Are you prepared to go it alone? Have you considered that you'll need child support, rent, food, etc.

You sound very young to me. It is sad that at this time in your life that you are not independent to begin with. It will be a long hard uphill struggle to bring a baby into this world when you cannot afford to, without your parents.

Maybe it's time to think about your future, and the future of your baby, so that you are not in a position of having to follow someone elses' house rules.

[N0help4u]

Its totally natural for parents to totally dislike the boyfriend -even husband once they know your problems. Its very disrespectful having sex in your parents home. Why can't you meet where your boyfriend lives or McDonalds? Everyone else covered what else I'd say

[talaniman]

Can't he just be humble and apologize?

[whiteh2162]

Can't he just be humble and apologize?

Nobody said anything about having sex in my parents home..

During the time you took to write this, you could have indeed asked your mother why she feels the way she does.

Why are two grown daughters having babies while living with parents? Maybe they are just fed up with the whole pattern repeating itself, and you were unlucky to be second.

I didn't feel the need to answer why or what we are doing I asked one simple question.

[N0help4u]

I didn't feel the need to answer why or what we are doing I asked one simple question.

Your question:
Question is, should I talk to my Mom about how I feel ?
Answer:
Sure and then she can tll you all about how she feels about the situation

[joypulv]

You can be offended all you want, but your question wasn't as simple as you now want to make it sound. You provided quite a bit of detail, and it really added a lot to what could have been a one-liner. ANY question regarding you and a parent is best just plain asked of the parent.

[talaniman]

QUOTE by whiteh2162;
Nobody said anything about having sex in my parents home..

Neither did I o whatever he did or they think he did why can't he apologize? If its not accepted then that's different.

I didn't feel the need to answer why or what we are doing I asked one simple question.

Then talk to your mama, HAPPY!!