[aDorkableMe]

So my period is usually in the middle of every month. Not sure which day cause I'm irregular but my fiancée and I had sec for a week straight abd research time he came in me. Now my thing is, I was spotting like 3-4 days ago. We had sex and he ejaculated again. It's 2 days later that this quarter sizes drop of blood comes, I wipe and its nothing. I get more cramps and the blood flow is medium but slowly getting light again every time I go to clean myself. My question is... can I still be pregnant even though this is happening and how long do I wait to see?

[aDorkableMe]

I meant sex not sec and I meant every time not research...

[J_9]

my fiancée and I had sec for a week straight abd research time he came in me.

I'm sorry, I don't understand. Would you mind rephrasing that please?

[aDorkableMe]

If you read the comment above you I cleared up my mistakes...

[aDorkableMe]

My fiancée and I had sex for a week straight and he ejaculated in me every time.

[J_9]

So, you get your period the middle of every month? It's the middle of the month so your period should be due any time now.

Are you trying to get pregnant?

[aDorkableMe]

We ARE in fact trying. And this bleeding still seems early my friend. Im talking my period is usually like around the late teens on to the 20's of the month. And it'll be done around the 23rd or 25th. This bleeding is still early to me and its not a regular menstrual flow.

[J_9]

The first symptom of pregnancy is a MISSED period. Not bleeding. We all have unusual periods at least once or twice in our lifetimes, more actually, but most of us don't pay attention to it.

[aDorkableMe]

Once or twice... this usually happens when I'm trying and ends up a miscarriage. I want to cry but... I'm on the verge of giving up. This will be the third time and I'm a super emotional person at times like this.

[aDorkableMe]

Thank you though.

[J_9]

Okay, so you have had 2 miscarriages? With the same partner?

How long have you been trying this time? With the same partner?

[aDorkableMe]

Oh no last time it was 2 other men. I plan on staying with this one for sure but the other two were also planned out by ex s in the military.

[aDorkableMe]

And this is our first time. The fiancée believes he's fertile right now lol. But I'm starting to think that maybe I can't even bare a child and that thought ing sucks,. pardon my language. I'm just frustrated.

[aDorkableMe]

Effing*

[J_9]

He believes he's fertile right now? What does that mean?

[aDorkableMe]

That his sperm is very active...

[J_9]

Okay, that's good, but it's you that has to be fertile and ovulating in order for conception to happen.

How does he know his sperm is "very active?"

[aDorkableMe]

I know, and if that's the case then can I still try or do I wait? I hear that sperm only lasts for like 6-7 days in the body. That's why I tried calculating everything. And then this happened. And he thinks this cause he has a high sex drive and he usually doesn't.

[J_9]

Oh, goodness. I mean no disrespect to you, but I don't think you really understand how conception works.

How do you track your ovulation?

[aDorkableMe]

No no, that's why I'm looking for answers. I was using an app called fertility friend. Im sure you've heard of this.