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Salam,I am from uk my question is around 4 years before in mimicking (naqal utarana mazaq mein) I was sitiing with my husband and he was repeating whatever I was saying so to make him quite I said I give you talaq than he repeat I give you talaq... than again I said I give you talaq than again he repeat I give you talaq... after than I said to him now you have given me talaq and I know it was mimicking but he said it 2 times than we went to mosque one of mulana said to us do ruju and never do this kind of jokes,, now after 5 years I took khula from my huband and I have completed my iddat as well now at the time of khula he give me talaq one time and sign the khula paper as mulana ask him to do so,, now my question is altogether in life he has said 3 times talaq to me,, can we do another nikkha w/o marry to someone else I mean can I do nikkha to him again? Because as at the time of khula mulana said to me that after your iddat
Period you can remarry to anyone and to your ex husband as well with... so my question is first 2 times he said talaq in mimicking and after than we had ruju and than after 5 years I took khula from him and in khula mulana ask him to say "talaq" one time and he said that... but now in life altogether he has said to me 3 times,, can I do fresh nikkha with him I mean can I remarry him or not... thanks
JAZAK ALLAH.

I just want to clear my question is that I know he did talaq in mimicking 2 times and after that we had ruju but in khula as mulana in sharia council ask him to say I give you talaq... so he said that sentence once but now in life he said that talaq word 3 times I mean 2 in jokes and one in khula so can I remarry him or do halala is required

JAZAAK ALLAH KHIR.
*** can you reply as soon as you can.

[AbuBakr_Fin]

Wa aleikumus-Salaam.
The 2 times he said it are enforced, as Allaah`s Messenger -sAaws- has said whoever says it even while joking, he is in reality divorced. And Allaah knows best. Khul`a is not counted among them, but it shouldn`t be done with just an intention to avoid talaq. And Allaah knows best. May Allaah forgive you. NikaaH is not a game. Otherwise the punisment of zina of a married person would`t be stoning to death, and a non-married free person 100 lashes, and a slave 50 lashes. It`s a stupid joke, and you have both been very foolish. Your example to me is nothing but like the example of the jews who were ordered to say "Hittah", which is repentance to Allaah when they entered Jerusalum, and they changed the words to "Hintah", which is something silly. Allaah punished them, but His Mercy to this ummah is greater, so may He forgive you.

It has happened to me that I was divorced twice, and then my wife asked for khul`a, but we remarried without having married anyone in between, and the imams didn`t object to it, and considered it allowed. And this trial is from qadr of Allaah, and a lesson for us all, so may He purify us. Salaam.

And don`t ever even think about marrying someone justy to get divorce to marry your ex again. That`s like mut`ah, and playing with Huduud of Alaah, not nikaaH. A`uuthu Billaah. Shaitaan can whisper things, so be careful.

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Should I go back to my ex-husband after divorced twice?

[irfan qadir]

I and my wife have no undestanding.she wants talaq.her parents are greedy.they have written much costly things in the nikah nama.io am from pakistan. My wife was not willing for writings.now she wants khula and I want give her talaq. She has been absent from the house without my permission for 6 days for her demand. Now at the end she fought with me. I went to the astamp papwer writer. She wrote her khula and that she has forgiven all the things in the nikah nama. I have e written another stamp paper for talaq nama. I have given her 1 talaq. Now I have sent her to her home. Now I want to questyion that what is the proper and better way that her greedy parents my never demand any thing from me. As my wife does bnot demand for any trhing. What should I do.

[nazu4853]

HI

I am married for 15 years with 3 kids and My husband is always busy with his work, never spent time with me or kids and felt very left out and alone. About 5 years a ago I have found someone who I really like and has relationship with long. Latley I am worried and getting feeling that I am commetting Zina.

I have feeling for the other guy and not for my husband, also I if tell my husband that I need khula he will be very shock and Kids life will be affected . Not happy with present situation but can't do what si right very confuse

I have stopped seying other guy as well beacsue I was feeling guilty don't know what to do