[sammmy2026]

I am a teenager and I use AIM to talk to my friends instead of the phone. There is a boy I like and I was wondering how can I flirt with him online?

[Matt3046]

Well just start talking. Trust me he will like it if you message him.

[sammmy2026]

I know you're reading this, could I have some more input?

[Matt3046]

Ok, do you know any of his friends? If so they can be your gate to him. Do you have any classes with him? Help with school is great, because often you can get a "study date."
Where does he go what does he do? Some research will help you to make conversation.
Gey your friends to help, they could "drop hints" to his friends. But here is the thing I have found to be the most important, and it will apply to many things in life, if you want something you have to go get it. You must always remember, that you are as good as anyone else, and that there are going to be time that you win and others that you lose.
But if you don't play you sure arnt ever going to win. Now that said I think it is important to show interest but not come on too strong. Don't act slutty, (not to say you would) guys just don't like that. Learn how to flirt, you can ask anybody, even your parents. If you can't flirt it is hard to get off the ground, but not imposable. Here is the most important thing, if he does not know that you are interested, you will never get anywhere, guys are afraid of rejection too. And knowing that you might like him will take allot of the pressure off. Let me know if you have more questions.

[incognito]

Unless you flirt with this person already off-line, then they might take your flirting as being sarcastic.
Flirting in person is so much better. I'd take a real smile over an inanimate emoticon any day.

[Kriscool]

My suggestion would be not to flirt online. Flirt in person because it makes the person feel good and its harder to make someone feel as good over messages. But do as you wish.

Kriscool

Agree, with the above statement. I'd talk personal and I know its hard but try. What you could also do is try getting his phone number and talk over the phone and start saying nice things. Just be yourself it always works best.

Kriscool :)

Oops sorry didn't remember what you said about the phone... sorry. Guess it was useless advice then.

Kriscool

[serapis]

try saying you love him it make him pound his heart to the max oye... ^___^say it like you really meant it

[Krs]

Don't flirt or say things you don't mean... be yourself... try make him laugh ;)