[Alty]

Thanks! Tha info was great. Why he doesnt have a vasectomy? ...he doesn't want to. Like I said, I have kids,he has 2 girls, and I know he wants at least one more . He would of kept this one. It was my decision to abort, and he dint agreed, but support me. Is easy to sound like the better person and say, yes I would keep a baby when in reality things are tough, financially I mean. We both work, no public assistance here, but I have my 3kids and he pays child support on his. Also, he is younger than me, and even though things are ok now, and we been together for 6 years, I dnt think we will last forever. By the way he hates wen I say this, but I like to keep things real. So you may ask, why am I with him then??...because he makes me happy right now, and thas all that matters to meas of today. I was in a long 10 years abusive relationship with my 2 youngest father, a guy my age. And this guy, younger like I said has been real good to me and my kids. Well...just went on and on abt my life...guess thas why I sign up. Is like thinking out loud. Thanks for listening. :)

Kids are expensive. I can understand not being able to afford another, many people are in that financial boat right now. You have to be able to take care of the ones that are already here. In other words, not condemning you at all for the choice you made, I'm pro choice. :)

I would look into getting a tubal done. Find out the cost, how long you'll be out from work, and the success rate after the procedure is done.

You also don't have to validate your choice to stay with this guy. I can understand why you told us, but really, it's your choice. If you want to talk about it, we're here to listen, but you don't have to justify why you choose to be with someone, not to any of us, or to anyone else.

I do wish you luck with everything, and I hope you stick around to let us know how everything is going. Too many times people come, post, we start to worry about them, and then we never know if everything turns out okay.