[braindamage]

So, I met someone online and he's awesome and everything I'm looking for in a guy. Now, we've been only talking for a month but I guess you can say we like each other a lot.. or so I thought. Here's the confusing part. Out of know where he has been distant. And it's funny cause he's the one who thought this relationship would work out more than I did.al and he would always tell me I'm all he needed and wanted. I'm never stupid to believe Guys but I believed him. And now part of me is confused.
Help? All opinions wanted. Be as honest as you want.

[xaramaro]

Can you say it clearly , so I can help ? Bcause am a guy

[Oliver2011]

In online relationships it is easy to lie. I wouldn't put too much into one. I am just guessing here, but there are probably available guys where you live. You could actually meet someone real and in person.

[Cat1864]

How much do you really know about him and his life? Have you tried asking him why the change?

First, only he can tell you what he is thinking or feeling.

Second, you have only known him a month and you have only been talking on-line (or have you met in real life?) A month isn't very long in getting to know someone. What you are seeing as being distant may be him being caught up in his everyday life-work, school, family, friends, etc. On the other hand, there is the possibility that this is his usual pattern of behavior. Start heavily invested in the 'relationship' and then drop it once the chase is over.

I suggest putting the thoughts of being more than friends on hold for a while. Go about your life and don't put all of your hopes for a relationship on this person until you get to know him better over the course of several months. Pay attention to warning signs that he may not be who or what he says he is.

I won't say to drop him because he is a bit distant because it may not be his choice. I am not going to jump to the conclusion that he is married and looking for fun or a young teen trying to be more mature than he is. But I am saying to hold off on giving complete trust until you know him better.

[N0help4u]

From everything I have ever seen once a guy withdraws from being so open and close to withdrawn, not talking, into his video games, cars, or whatever its all downhill from there. Trying to get them to pay more attention or give you more attention only comes off as nagging so it's a no win situation. Only solution is to tell him that given the fact he is distancing himself you feel he lost interest in you and maybe you should go your own separate ways and see how he reacts to that.