How old are you both? For one thing gaming and chatting online is not dating, and whatever is going on you never know what the truth is with strangers you never met. For sure it's a dangerous thing to be involved with anyone that uses emotional blackmail to keep in contact with you.
You better be more than cautious about such people as abused people often abuse others, and you don't seem to be in a position to help, and may well become a victim, intentional, or not. But its not healthy to be in fear of expressing yourself and he is wrong to tell you these things.
Don't be so foolish as to leave yourself open to be manipulated into bad positions. If he is scary online, then never take a chance in person.
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