[Dani_RP]

I've been contemplating this for a long time. Every time I ask people this they think I'm crazy. The only reason I'm telling my age is because I want an honest answer to my particular situation. I'm 15 years old I'm obviously a girl, and I want to have sex with my boyfriend. I've been with him for 2 1/2 years constantly, we've never broken up and rarely ever fight. We've been going strong and are head in heels in love. He's never pressured me to have sex with him, treats me like a queen and tells me how beautiful I am everyday. I've never had a guy make me feel the way before. I 'm a virgin and I am very mature I'm not stupid I know what I'm getting myself into. I've been thinking about this for the past year, I'm currently on birth control because of doctors orders and I know someone who can get me condoms. I just want advice from someone who's been in my place or has advice for me, please no negativity.
Thanks.

[Wondergirl]

How old is he?

What have your parents said? And what about his parents?

Are the two of you ready to be parents?

[Fr_Chuck]

15 is too young, birth control fails, so pregnancy is always a option. So until you are ready to be a parent, you do not need to have sex.

And merely being with someone for a length of time, does not make it 'time" for sex

[joypulv]

There's nothing crazy about asking this very natural question, but it would be imprudent for any adult anywhere to say 'You sound mature and have b.c. and a loving boyfriend, go for it.' And getting advice from other teens would be a bit like me advising a Martian about fixing his space ship.
The bottom line is that in the US and much of the world, there are laws to protect minors. Either one of you could be charged with a crime (in the US, laws regarding sex with a minor vary by state). The law is based on the theory that minors cannot be expected to make serious decisions, and this is a life-altering decision.

[ScottGem]

There is a reason everyone you ask thinks you are crazy.

You have been with your boyfriend since you were 13, you have never known anyone else. This is not a situation that makes one confident that you are experiencing real love.

No form of birth control is 100% effective. As the others have said, taking it to the "next level" will change your relationship and put strains on it you cannot foresee. No one should engage in sexual intercourse until they are physically, emotionally and financially prepared to have a child.

Have you spoken to him about this? Maybe he is not ready.

[J_9]

I agree with what everyone else has said. While you may be mature for your age, your body is not mature enough to handle pregnancy, and you are not mature enough to be a mother. That's not a put down to you, it's just the facts.

As has been said, there is no form of birth control that is 100% effective. I, for one, have gotten pregnant not once, but twice using both the pill AND the condom. Both correctly I might add. Another member here got pregnant her first time having sex using three forms of birth control.

There are too many health risks to both you and baby should you become pregnant.

As has been said, sex changes the dynamics of a relationship. It will change the dynamics in a way you aren't prepared to handle at your age.

If you are as mature as you say you are, you will reconsider this notion you have. It's really not a smart idea at your age.

[Therealbella18]

Imma give it to you straight. 15 is too young to have sex. It's great that you got it all figured out on preventing pregnancy and STIs but those aren't 100% effective. So WAIT WAIT WAIT❗Sure you're in love. You can fall in love at almost any age, that's perfectly fine, that's what's in your heart. But now, I feel is not to time for sex. I waited until I was 18 to finally have sex, and I wish I waited. Even though me and my boyfriend been together since I was 16 I waited until I felt it was time. Even though its all good and fun I still wish I had my virginity. Just wait until you're for certain about that next step, and make sure he has his head in straight about it too.✌😎

[talaniman]

Everybody here says wait, and everybody you talk to thinks its crazy. Its unanimous, nobody thinks that having sex with your boyfriend is the next level for a 15 year old in a relationship. Neither do I.

I've never had a guy make me feel the way before

And you have never had a guy for an adult relationship yet either.