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    Jun 11, 2013, 04:01 PM
    I'm in a relationship but have feelings for someone else
    I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy and I love him so much. We have been friends for such a long time & together for 2 years but last year I met a guy that I really started to like and we were talking(my boyfriend and I broke up for a short period of time) I always wanted a relationship with this other guy but he didn't because he was going into the military. We recently started talking again and my feelings for him are still there. I haven't been as happy in my relationship as I used to be and I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend but should I stay with him or try and see where things go with this other guy? I've been fighting with this decision for too long and don't know what to do.
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    Jun 11, 2013, 05:46 PM
    You are emotionally cheating on your boyfriend.

    If he came to you with this problem from his side, what would you want him to do?

    Then do it.
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    Jun 11, 2013, 05:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    If he came to you with this problem from his side, what would you want him to do?

    Then do it.
    Nice. Excellent answer.


    You say how amazing he is and how in love with him you are but then you go on to say you're not happy and you're thinking of this other guy. Just end it now, hurt him quick, and save him from what you're eventually going to put him through.
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    Jun 11, 2013, 06:09 PM
    If you don't know what to do, then you don't need to be in relationship.

    Try being honest, and treat others like you want them to treat you.

    Would you want your boyfriend talking to some girl behind your back?
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