[tony22h]

Me and my girlfriend are both 22 yrs old, we've been together for two years and like any other relationship we've had our up and downs, but for the most part its been great. A couple months ago I was in a car accident that resulted in our only car being totalled. After haselling with the insurance companies for about a month we finally settled and they sent us a check. She has since been angry with me saying rthat I should have been more assertive on the matter and now were in a bit of a financial problem since we had to use the settlement money to buy a car and I didn't have any money saved up. She says I need to grow up and that she's tired of having to act like my mother. She says I take her for granted which I might have a little but I really love her and appreciate everything she has done for me. She said we needed a break and asked me to leave our apt. I miss her so much and don't want to lose her. What can I do

[teacherjenn4]

Move on with your life without her. Are you in school? Do you work? See your friends and family. Do some volunteer work. Grow as a person. Being a grown up means being able to take care of yourself and have your own life. By doing that, she may become interested in you again.

[odinn7]

Sounds like this relationship isn't going to work out anyway... best to forget about it.