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    Jun 3, 2013, 05:58 PM
    Married man who loves me but tells me he can't leave his wife yet
    Because he has family obligations to his two adult sons 22 and 23 years old in college. He always complain to me how he's not happy or not having sex but continues to stay there. Am I being played
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    Jun 3, 2013, 06:35 PM
    How would a divorce affect "family obligations" to his college-attending sons?
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    Jun 3, 2013, 06:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How would a divorce affect "family obligations" to his college-attending sons?
    Maybe he is staying in the relationship because of them
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    Jun 3, 2013, 06:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nina40 View Post
    maybe he is staying in the relationship because of them
    Because they don't want their parents to get a divorce?

    Even divorced, he is still their father.
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    Jun 3, 2013, 06:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Because they don't want their parents to get a divorce?

    Even divorced, he is still their father.
    so he should stay in that unhealthy marriage for the kids sake
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    Jun 3, 2013, 07:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nina40 View Post
    so he should stay in that unhealthy marriage for the kids sake
    But they are no longer "kids."

    I'm guessing you are being played.
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    Jun 5, 2013, 04:20 AM
    Is this the same man? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...rs-751890.html

    Is he also the man who told you to ask your sister if she is a lesbian?
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    Jun 5, 2013, 04:47 AM
    Once a cheater always a cheater. If he has cheated with you, how can you trust him?

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