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imperfect_me · May 31, 2013, 10:02 AM

Hey guys. I need help I knew I'm only 17 and I have a boyfriend actually he is my ex's best friend and I'm currently dating him since 1 month we usually chatted on Facebook and texting and suddenly I fell in love with him and he has says so loves me to.

But he is really jealous. My best friend is a boy and he orders me to choose him or my best friend. I can’t do that. They both are really precious. But he does not get this. If I talk to a guy he gets REALLY angry. We fight a lot. Every day we fight and he gets very angry on me. I hate that he gets angry but every time a fight occurs when I talk to a guy or I try to hide things from him which are not his concerns. We every time make up but I don’t like it when we fight. He sometimes says sorry. But most of the time he thinks it’s my fault and tries to break up with me which we finally patch up. I don’t know I'm really scared when he gets angry on me and when I try to break up he gets all weak and says don’t leave me and all.

I’m not saying anything against him. I actually love him a lot. But I'm totally confused in what to do. Can anybody please help me?

Homegirl 50 · May 31, 2013, 10:17 AM

You need to leave him alone. Jealousy control and anger are a bad combination. This will not get better. All of this in a month long relationship is bad news.

Oliver2011 · May 31, 2013, 10:27 AM

I totally agree with my Homegirl, but that won't shock a soul.

Life is too short for people who make drama for the sake of having drama. Find someone else. Life is so much more special without drama.

talaniman · May 31, 2013, 02:11 PM

How do you love someone that fights with you, blames you, and makes you choose between your best friends? Explain it because I don't understand it, and you probably don't either.

Your patch jobs are obviously not working.

imperfect_me · Jun 1, 2013, 05:32 AM

Yes I agree with you guys.you all are totally right but I keep thinking about what will happen after I leave him and stuff

Homegirl 50 · Jun 1, 2013, 05:42 AM

He will find someone else to push around. You've only been dating a month. He'll get over it and so will you.

imperfect_me · Jun 1, 2013, 05:49 AM

I think you are right. I hope things work out thanku guys for your help..

Homegirl 50 · Jun 1, 2013, 05:54 AM

You're welcome.

talaniman · Jun 1, 2013, 06:05 AM

Originally Posted by imperfect_me

yes i agree with you guys.you all are totally right but i keep thinking about what will happen after i leave him and stuff

You will get over him and get a far healthier partner for fun and romance.

biebersgirl · Jun 9, 2013, 03:40 PM

You say you love him but leaving your best friend for him is extreme if he really loved you he wouldn't make you choose plus stand firm and break up because jealousy and anger really don't go it could get worse and you could get hurt. Do it in a public place where you can get away and have friends with you but don't bring your best friend it will only make things worse and chances are he will blame your best friend and they will end up fighting, choose right or you'll regret leaving your best friend behind I know because my friend had to choose between a guy she thought she loved and a guy she had known her whole life she regretted her decision because the one she chose abused her and used her for sex don't make the same mistake you'll find someone chances are he will have been there all along you just haven noticed. Best of luck hope you get the happy ever after I know you deserve xx