[Tradedin]

I Really want my ex girlfriend back. So much its ridiculous. We went out for a year and we were always happy, I had no doubt she loved me back, she told me so and I believed her. I could always tell when she lied. Heh. We had our ups and downs though but the only real problem was when we would go out drinking and I would get jealous of other men being all over her. Id take it out on her by just ignoring her for a while on the night, but we would make up by morning. We were thinking of getting a flat, and going on holiday together, but then that night happened. We were out again, and my so called friend decides because he has broke up with his girlfriend he's going to go 4 mine. Once again I get mad when I see the two of them on the dance floor then I see him leaning over her, her with both her and his phone laughing... I wasn't impressed. So we row. And make up again. Then we row because she doesn't want to sleep at mine when we next go out, I'm upset because I'm insulted because she always sleeps over. But we go out anyway not on good terms and he's out again. I leave early on, and go to bed thinking we would be OK in the morning. I wake up to hear she wants a break. It devastated me. A couple of days later she gets my best friend to tell me she's seeing someone else... the very guy who was trying it on with her when we went out. Rage took over. But within a week he cheated on her twice and I said id take her back, she uhmd and ah'd then said no, now she more or less goes with any one and tries to ignore me. She's changed into a very crap person, but I love the girl I was with and I miss her, because she the girl id do anything 4. I want her back!! How? Sum1? Anyone?

[jonjons1girl]

Move on honey, You need to be happy. It sounds like she doesn't care about you or herself the way she's going out with a bunch of people. BUT, you need to work on the jealousy thing. Its going to push girls away if you get upset over nothing, I am not saying you did. But just be careful. If you find someone you love... TRUST THEM. If someone is flirting with them and that girl really loves/cares about you she will not fall for it or even pay them any mind. BUT move on find someone that will be good for you and make you happy. GOOD LUCK!

[lordkelvin1987]

I think if its meant to be then you should invite her out to dinner or your house and tell her exactly what you just said. Tell her how much she means to you and that you love her so much. If she says no way then just block her out of your life and try your best to move on. If she says yes then never treat her wrong and love her like never before.