[lisho1]

I have been seeing this guy for over a month.when I asked what happened with his Ex,he told me she went out of country and they are done.we had a sweet relationship for a month,after two weeks of clocking a month,he started hiding from me,he stopped picking up my calls and replying to my texts.he was quiet on me for over a week.he then called to say his in a dilema and he doesn't know what to do,he sayed he was sorry.but even after he sayed that he still continued to hide from me.when I demanded the truth he sayed that its me he wanted but still he never picked my calls.he later wrote me a text saying his sorry for everything and will understand what action I will take.please help me I don't know what to do.

[JudyKayTee]

You saw him for a month and then he pulled away and stopped all contact?

This troubles me - "when I demanded the truth ..." I don't think you have any right to demand anything. His business is just that, his business.

I would guess he's sorry the relationship didn't work out, but it's over. Did the pregnancy scare frighten him? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/could-pregnant-740983.html

You have posted several problems with your personal and sexual relationships. Did you solve any of those problems? Perhaps you are carrying baggage from one relationship to another.

Leave him alone. He doesn't owe you any explanation. One would be nice - but it's not a given!

[Cat1864]

Lisho, my advice is to be single for awhile. At the end of March (two months ago), you were concerned about a possible pregnancy with two men who could have been the father (an ex and the then current boyfriend of eight months.) For you to have been involved with this man for over a month (a month and a half with the two weeks 'after' clocking a month), you had to break up with the then current boyfriend and almost immediately start going out with this one.

Stop pursuing this male or any others until you have had time to heal and fully move forward from the last relationship. You ask about his ex, but, honestly, I think he should be worried about yours. If you don't slow down and think about what you want in a relationship and learn how to build one at a steady pace, there will be more confusion, heart-ache and pain in your future. Cheating and sliding/jumping from relationship to relationship are not healthy for your self-respect or confidence.

Take some time and date yourself. Build a solid foundation of security before you try building a new relationship with someone else.