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    May 19, 2013, 06:49 AM
    How to leave my husband?
    How to leave my husband?

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    May 19, 2013, 06:51 AM
    Could you please give us more details into your situation? It's impossible to give advice with such little information.
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    May 19, 2013, 07:25 AM
    Pack a bag and leave? Evict him? Why are you wanting to leave? Got any money? A job? Have kids, or shared assets?

    The devil is in the details.
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    May 19, 2013, 08:23 PM
    Pack a bag and leave.

    Then get a lawyer and file for divorce.
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    May 19, 2013, 08:31 PM
    How to leave my husband
    He thinks ugly quips about me in front of my friends is so smart... he has a big crush (or is in Love with my boss)... and everything we do has to be on his time table... there is NO intimacy.. at ALL... So how do I leave Him??
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    May 20, 2013, 07:26 AM
    Depending on where you are if you pack a bag and leave and then file for divorce he will have abandonment (legal) grounds against you - and this could be a costly mistake.

    Do you truly want to leave - or do you want him to change?
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    May 20, 2013, 08:07 AM
    As said inthreads before.
    You can not make anyone change.
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    May 20, 2013, 11:10 AM
    There is counselling for him, for her, for them both. People do change - I'm not saying he will or wants to.

    I'm seeing a number of threads about counselling, trying to work a problem out. I see very little about walking away (unless it's abusive, of course). What posts am I missing?

    Walking out and losing her legal rights is not the solution.

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