[Alexzandria]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and half years. And prior to us moving in together sex was breath takingly the best I have ever had in my life! He would be romantic and take his time and about an hour later close with a bomb explosion. It would be everyday throughout the day and each time we would have multiple orgasims. He made me feel as if I was what he needs all the time. Now that time that has went on it has dropped tremendously.

For about 10 months now we maybe have sex two times a week. And not for very long. He's enjoying it but I'm not. He cums SOOO fast now. And he tells me that I'm never satisfied. And that makes me feel embarrassed as if I'm disgusting. And when I bring up the past he says he's trying to go back to that. We are both very young he is 21 and I am 23 . I don't think he is cheating because we are together a lot and I trust him . But I honestly don't know how you can go From 100 to 10!

Also he doesn't like if I masturbate which makes me feel like I'm in a prison! ������

[talaniman]

Two things, sex habits do change and what does he have to do with YOUR private satisfaction? You need to talk about boundaries and make some adjustments to your bedroom expectations.

When the lust fades, the love should grow, if it wasn't all lust in the first place.

[Homegirl 50]

Your masturbating should not be any of his business. If he's not doing the job you should be able to get satisfaction. Sounds like he has easy access now so maybe he has become selfish and lazy. You should not feel bad because he is being selfish. Talk about what you need him to do and let him know your masturbating is not his business.