[Mely90]

Hello, my boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. We had a long distance relationship, he lives 5 hours away from me and we tried to see each other at least once or twice a month. We went out for 2 years. Everything was perfect, I thought I was actually going to end up marrying my best friend, but since the spring semester started in January, everything changed. He started to make more friends, and to think and see things different, he was always busy with school and almost never had time for me. We didn't even video chat, our relationship started to be based only through texts and this was affecting me. I started to get jealous of the girls around him because he would tell me things about them and I couldn't help it but to get jealous. I felt that he was giving them more attention than he was giving me and that thought killed me. We started arguing nonstop because of all this and one day he said we should break up. The reason he gave me was because his priorities right now were his family and school.

This killed me, I didn't think he was going to actually say this to me, I still can't believe it. I did many stupid things to try to fix everything but nothing worked. He is acting really arrogant and cold with me, however a couple of weeks ago he said we could try to work things out but that he doesn't want to promise me anything, because he says I need to work on my insecurities alone and until I don't feel like I'm getting better we won't go back together. I don't know what's wrong, I always gave the best of me, I don't know why he is being this way, Its true I was jealous but I wasn't extremely jealous, I would just get sad and weird whenever he told me about other girls, but the way he talks to me now he is making me feel like I was the worst girlfriend he ever had.

Should I keep trying to work things out or just move on? I don't know what to do :(

[talaniman]

It appears you are the only one trying to work things out, and he isn't so you let it go and leave him alone.