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kristaxmariexoxo · Mar 28, 2007, 03:05 AM

OK so I am 16 he is 20 we have known each other for about 4-5 months now and we really like each other a lot its weird but even thought we have known each other for a short time we seem to have fallen and fallen hard for each other.We both have so much in common,we can't stand to be apart,we both feel so serene when we are together,we can't stay mad at one another... its just crazy,but I am not sure he loves me the way he says he does.He says he is pretty sure he wants to be with me for ever and all that and he says he would never cheat on me... I mean he won't even watch porn anymore because he says he would feel like he was cheating.. idk maybe its because I have been hurten pretty badly before or because it has only been 4-5 months but I am very on edge about it.idk I completely trust him and all I just feel he will find sum1 better I don't know low self estem?I don't know please help I don't know what to think

Krs · Mar 28, 2007, 03:22 AM

What's your question exactly?
And what's I don't know?

texxxas · Mar 29, 2007, 11:04 AM

Babe, you're 16 and he's 20? It's okay when he's 24 and you're 20, but you see, you're only in high schol still, what's he doing trying to be with you? That's the technical side of this problem, the emotional side is, why do you think he'll find someone better? What's wrong with you? NOTHING at all, so stop thinking that, boys his age are very immature, so as long as you're happy with him and like him then keep it up but do keep in mind that he may just be playing with you, it's really difficult to tell, cause the players, liars, cheaters and faithful, sincere, loyal guys allllll use the same line... so if you like him, don't sweat it but don't invest too much feeling into him, but if you're confused about liking him and all that, just find someone who's closer to your age, okay babe? Good luck and don't EVERRRRRRRRRRRRR feel like you're not good enough, take that thought out of your head

Rockabilly1955mama · Mar 29, 2007, 11:08 AM

Right of the bat, you're jail bait. I would wait until you're 18 to start dating him. This may be the reason why he's afriad to love you. Just give it time. And don't you ever, ever feel like your not good enough for a mans love, because you are too good for some of them! (;