
Originally Posted by
kerwiller
I don't know where you get information from but I talked with my DOCTOR and my mother who had two children and it is possible to begin feeling pregnancy symptoms as early as a week after conception. It is all individual to the woman. I don't appreciate you discounting my feelings like that. Secondly, if you are a MAN then what qualifies you to answer a question about whether a woman might be pregnant or not. I asked to hear answers from women who have had similar situations. Since you cannot get pregnant I don't feel you would be qualified to try and answer that. We know our bodies. We can tell PMS from something else.
Thank goodness I listened to my doctor and not you and got a blood test. My PCOS was causing a severe hormone inbalance that mimicks pregnancy exactly. I got a blood test and now have the necessary steps to improve my symptoms. The doctor said it was great that I got tested because of the risk for ectopic pregnancy. Don't go answering questions if your not qualified to do so.
Actually, sometimes you CAN'T tell PMS from being pregnant. I spent TEN YEARS trying to get pregnant. I cannot tell you how many times I just "felt" pregnant, and got excited about symptoms (that ultimately turned out to be something else) and then had my heart broken month after month after month because I kept reading symptoms as "pregnant" when they were "PMS", "Hungry", "Tired", "whatever".
You SHOULD always consult with a doctor when trying to get pregnant. You should also consult with a doctor when something feels "off" with your body.
But please--from someone who has been there--don't snap at people for telling you that "feeling pregnant" isn't enough without a positive pregnancy test.
PS---there are LOTS of men out there who have been through pregnancies with their girlfriends or wives, and many more who have sisters, mothers, aunts, cousins and PATIENTS who have been pregnant. Please don't presume that a man doesn't know something simply because of his gender. That's sexist, and we don't tolerate discrimination around here.