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    Apr 9, 2013, 11:24 AM
    My best friend of 8 years is dating my ex boyfriend/crush. What do I do?
    Hi.

    >First post was deleted by the OP.<
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    Apr 9, 2013, 11:30 AM
    Confused about what? You dumped him, and he is free to see whomever he wants which includes your best friend. Get used to this because this will happen again and again. You don't own any guy, and you have to learn to let go once you end a relationship.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 11:34 AM
    You broke up with him... you're 13... move on.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:14 PM
    I thought there was some plan on the way which would keep prevent OP from changing the question once he/she got an answer - unless the question here was always "hi."

    I doubt it.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:17 PM
    I am guessing that she didn't like the answers she got... and I was being nice too. That's what I get for being nice.

    There should be something in place to keep the original question from being edited by the OP.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:22 PM
    This time it's annoying. On the legal threads people ask a question, get an answer, change the original question, the answer makes no sense - and the people who follow then question the answer. It's like chasing your own tail.

    Yes, the question should be frozen once it's answered. I thought answers were frozen once someone else answers.

    For example, I post something, don't like it, change it. I post something, you post something, I can't go back and change my answer.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:25 PM
    All the more reason to quote the OP et al.

    I can edit and change anyone's reply, so let me know! :D Hmmm, I could do that to the OP too. Hmmmm.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    All the more reason to quote the OP et al.

    I can edit and change anyone's reply, so let me know! :D Hmmm, I could do that to the OP too. Hmmmm.

    I'm sorry if I caused a problem deleting it it wasn't me who posted it it was a friend and I didn't really want my problems on blast plus it was even the right story. Sorry if it bothered you and everyone else.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by basketball_15 View Post
    I'm sorry if I caused a problem deleting it it wasn't me who posted it it was a friend and I didn't really want my problems on blast plus it was even the right story. Sorry if it bothered you and everyone else.
    You are NOT to allow others to use your account. Accounts are easy to create and are free.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:36 PM
    Makes no sense... your friend posted it yet it was the first post ever made from your account... so then it was pretty much your friends account... and nobody knows you or your friend so why worry about who sees it?
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    Makes no sense....your friend posted it yet it was the first post ever made from your account...so then it was pretty much your friends account....and nobody knows you or your friend so why worry about who sees it?
    Ok so my friend made it then gave me the account info. And I don't know I just didn't want it on here. So that's why I deleted it.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by basketball_15 View Post
    Ok so my friend made it then gave me the account info. And I don't know I just didn't want it on here. So that's why I deleted it.
    It apparently was no longer your account once your friend took it over. Ohm, but now your friend made the account? You had no business deleting the first post. How did you get your hands on it?
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    It apparently was no longer your account once your friend took it over. You had no business deleting the first post. How did you get your hands on it?

    Ok she made the account and pretended to be me. Then told me she made it for me. So technically she made it but used my info. That's why I deleted it I never gave her permission to make it.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:44 PM
    Whatever, I have more important things to do than be the play thing for some kid.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by basketball_15 View Post
    Ok she made the account and pretended to be me. Then told me she made it for me. So technically she made it but used my info. That's why I deleted it I never gave her permission to make it.
    Why is a "friend" being so mean to you? You do realize you can be permanently banned from sites when you play games like this, don't you?
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:45 PM
    Another reason children should not be on adult sites.

    She got caught in a lie and can't figure out how to straighten it out.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Why is a "friend" being so mean to you? You do realize you can be permanently banned from sites when you play games like this, don't you?
    Yes. I tried deleting it but you can't delete accounts. So the only solution was to delete the post.
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    Apr 9, 2013, 12:47 PM
    >This thread is closed!!!!!!!!<

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