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    thatoneguy11 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 27, 2007, 02:49 PM
    Why is she confused
    Well let me first start by saying hello and thanks for helping

    Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and she is saying she's "confused" whenever I ask why she says I don't know. She seems to be beating around the bush about it I just want to know what it is and why she's confused. I really don't know what to do .its bee tearing me apart because I really like her a lot. I wrote her poems with really deep meanings to try to fix things and I've called her talked to her and everything. I just don't know. Can someone help me please I really like her and I need to keep this relationship going

    Another question, can people just stop likeing each other out of nowhere even if the relationship is going fine and you have done nothing to anyoy or hurt the other person?

    Thanks so much

    Sam
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    Mar 27, 2007, 03:02 PM
    Hey Sam,

    If she says she's confused & she doesn't know what the reason is, then, she must be very confused. OR She's just hiding something from you.

    You should talk to her. Try to find out what's up, what's wrong, why is she confused... Something's not right and you have to make things right for the sake of your relationship.

    There's definitely something she's not speaking out..
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    Mar 27, 2007, 03:03 PM
    Thanks kristynn
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    Mar 27, 2007, 03:11 PM
    You need to find out what this so called "confusion" really is.

    Cause if you ask me, I'm pretty sure she's using it is a cover, to hide the fact that something is bothering her, AND SHE Won't TELL YOU WHAT IT IS.

    So she uses this "confusion" as a sham.

    Be careful with this one, tred lightly.

    You may not like what's bothering her.
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    Mar 27, 2007, 03:15 PM
    You're very welcome.

    To follow-up on what alizeblu mentionned... Cheating could be one reason for her 'confusion', but I hope this is not it. She might just be lost somehow, having a haunting feeling that something's not right... Sounds like something concerning you, her, your relationship.

    Only you can find out!
    All the best to you.
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    Mar 29, 2007, 10:27 AM
    Sam, yeah, sounds like your girlfriend is confused about how she feels about you, I don't know why, but sometimes people get that way, for no reason, maybe she's conteplating whether to stay with you, the reassurance you're giving her is great but give her some space, it'll give her time to think and also realize whether she wants to proceed with you, although you realllyyyy like her, you also deserve someone who reallllyyyyy likes you back, so if she doesn't, though it may hurt, then you shouldn't invest any more of your time on her, good luck, hope things turn out for the best
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    Mar 29, 2007, 02:26 PM
    All you guys are great thanks for everything lol everything you said was right
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    Mar 30, 2007, 11:46 AM
    solid357, babe, sam asked for answers and opinions and I gave him mine, trust..? Hmmm OK? Lol kind of random that you replied to my statement about trust because nowhere in his question does it ask about trust, therefore I didn't answer anything about trust. But whatever, its all good...
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    Mar 30, 2007, 12:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by thatoneguy11
    well let me first start off by saying hello and thanks for helping

    me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and she is saying shes "confused" whenever i ask why she says i dont know. she seems to be beating around the bush about it i just want to know what it is and why shes confused. i really dont know what to do .its bee tearing me apart because i really like her alot. i wrote her poems with really deep meanings to try to fix things and ive called her talked to her and everything. i just dont know. can someone help me please i really like her and i need to keep this realtionship going

    another question, can people just stop likeing eachother out of nowhere even if the relationship is going fine and you have done nothing to anyoy or hurt the other person?

    thanks so much

    Sam
    Hello,
    Rite son I know exactly where you are. STOP WRITING POEMS AND WOTNOT. That's what I did and from what I gathered it just pushes them further away. My advice is to act like you would be fine if not better without her, show her what she's missing and prove to her shed be better off being with you.
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    May 30, 2007, 10:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by thatoneguy11
    well let me first start off by saying hello and thanks for helping

    me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and she is saying shes "confused" whenever i ask why she says i dont know. she seems to be beating around the bush about it i just want to know what it is and why shes confused. i really dont know what to do .its bee tearing me apart because i really like her alot. i wrote her poems with really deep meanings to try to fix things and ive called her talked to her and everything. i just dont know. can someone help me please i really like her and i need to keep this realtionship going

    another question, can people just stop likeing eachother out of nowhere even if the relationship is going fine and you have done nothing to anyoy or hurt the other person?

    thanks so much

    Sam
    Hi, Sam
    I think the girl is hiding something from you, she may be having another boyfriend, so she tries to show you that she is confused so that she can keep off from you
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