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Mar 26, 2013, 07:23 AM
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Would women still go out with me if...
I have loose skin from rapid weight loss. I lost over 100 pounds in the past year for reasons to get in shape. Now that I am thinner I notice myself talking to girl a little easier. In high school I was very shy and being over weight didn't help my confidence. Now that I look and feel better, the only obstical is my loose skin.
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Mar 26, 2013, 07:25 AM
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Girls will go out with you, if you are ugly as a dog, fat as a cow, and blind as a bat. It is just finding the right girl. But no one will , until you think they will. If you are negative, you will not get anyone.
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Mar 26, 2013, 07:43 AM
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I married someone who had lost over 200 lbs. He didn't think anyone would date him before the loss, or after. Obviously, it didn't matter to me, but it gave him confidence to date. Good luck!
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:26 AM
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Thank you both I appreciate your answers to my question. Although at the moment, I am unemployed and I don't have a car. What do women think about a guy in my situation.
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:33 AM
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Are you in the boonies or near public transportation? Are there free things to do around you or even at your home? (jigsaw puzzles, board games, DVDs, walking, cooking, etc.)
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:40 AM
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 Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Are you in the boonies or near public transportation? Are there free things to do around you or even at your home? (jigsaw puzzles, board games, DVDs, walking, cooking, etc.)
I am near public transportation and although I'm not a great cook, I do love to bake. I still live with my parent in a slightly small apartment so I'm not sure that's the place to get to know someone.
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:44 AM
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 Originally Posted by thefool2112
I am near public transportation and although I'm not a great cook, I do love to bake. I still live with my parent in a slightly small apartment so I'm not sure that's the place to get to know someone.
Join a book discussion or writers' group at the public library -- or start one. Volunteer somewhere. How old are you?
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:46 AM
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 Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Join a book discussion or writers' group at the public library -- or start one. Volunteer somewhere. How old are you?
23 years old
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:47 AM
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Are you job hunting?
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:48 AM
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 Originally Posted by thefool2112
23 years old
I second the volunteer idea. You'll meet nice people there! Do you have any special interests?hobbies?
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:52 AM
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 Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Are you job hunting?
Yes. And almost every where has you apply online.
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:55 AM
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 Originally Posted by teacherjenn4
I second the volunteer idea. You'll meet nice people there! Do you have any special interests?hobbies?
None that really stick out. Like I said I enjoy baking and do pick up a book occasionally.
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Mar 26, 2013, 09:56 AM
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 Originally Posted by thefool2112
Yes. And almost every where has you apply online.
Apply in person too. Go to the public libraries around you and apply, even to get a job shelving books -- OR even a volunteer job there, to get your foot in the door.
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Mar 26, 2013, 01:48 PM
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Is there a reason you are 23, unemployed and without a car, living with your parents? Illness? Job loss? A degree that doesn't translate into employment?
And, yes, you can't meet anyone sitting home - you need to get out there, volunteering, whatever it takes.
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