[Jimbob_ellis45]

My girlfriend says wants a breaks to find who he is but she is 32 and I am 20. We have had an amazing relationship and never argued but gone through a load o because she trying to go through divorce and family don't like me because of my age. She says to me she still loves me lots and it going to Hurt her being away from me but she got to do it. Why she hurting herself and me in the process? Thing is she said we can see each other now and then but I stayed at hers and we still having sex but we only see each maybe once a week or every 2 week. We have been together 10 month and now she saying she doesn't know if wants to be in another committed relationship after her marriage but we have already been together 10 month. But she says she can't see me with anyone else she said it could take couple of week or months she doesn't know but at end may not know answer if we get back together? What should I do ?

[tickle]

What should you do? Give her what she wants, a break to think things through. It can't be easy for her being in a new relationship, it has only been l0 months, and going through a divorce as well. Are there children involved? If so, then she really does need a break to consider everything.

[smkanand]

Well, it must been complicated for her, on one hand people need someone who love them when they go through break up and divorce and on other hand the feeling of uncertainty, insecurity holds you. She must be going through a lot. Let her take the time she wants. I think she's expecting commitment and stability from you. Since the relationship is just 10 month old, it's difficult for both of you. I think you should keep patience.

[Homegirl 50]

Give her what she wants. Leave her alone. She may be just trying to let you down easy. I can't image what a 32 year old woman wants with a 20 year old. (maybe the sex) Maybe the fling for her is over. Leave her alone.