[OneBigAthlete]

I had one girl that I have done stuff before my current girlfriend. She is in the dorm next to me, so we have sex, play, whatever very often. I can make her come 3-5 times a night within a few hours, but it seems no matter what she does she can't get me off. She had done absolutely nothing before me, so I have had to do a lot of teaching, but it is not getting much better. I have only gotten off with her one time. I masturbate one or two times a week just to ease the tension, but it seems like it is entirely my problem and she is getting very frustrated and seems not to try very hard because she knows I'll just get tired of it and finish myself anyway. Help please?

[fredg]

You might be trying too hard. Take a break, and give yourself some time, like a month or so away from her.

[talaniman]

You are a lousy teacher, or not doing enough yourself to get off with her help. Even while she is doing the work, participate more in your own release, be it mental, or physical, or both.

[JudyKayTee]

Getting you "off" is not her job - it's not a one-way street.

You sound like a boor.

[Alty]

Sounds like you may be too used to your own hand to get off with a woman.

When you're having sex what do you do to help get you there? If you're just laying there and expecting her to do all the work, sounds like you didn't learn enough to teach anyone anything. Time to go back to class and learn more.

[smoothy]

Exactly... I don't see this as her problem... but yours. You are how old exactly (actually this does matter)... in college it doesn't take much for the average person... if you think you got problems now... wait until you get a little older. That marathon we can run... will turn into one you can't.