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    trololo Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 16, 2013, 10:53 PM
    I think this guy likes me but I don't like him
    So there is this guy from my class that I think kind of likes me but I don't really like him. He started showing his attention for me a lot more than he did in the past.
    But the worst thing now is that I got to be his secret friend for a whole week( secret friend - something like secret santa, you have to surprise that person every day but he cannot know that it's you).
    Another thing is that, when somebody asked him who were the preties girls from his class, he wrote a lot of girls, but my name was written first. There is another girl named the same as me, but he doeasn't really talk to her a lot so I guess that was me.
    I am really confused now, especially for that whole "secret friend" thing. I can't stop thinking about it and it is just so nerve racking and I don't know what to do.
    Please please please tell me what should I do.
    Thank You.
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    Mar 16, 2013, 10:55 PM
    He hasn't done anything yet, but if he says something, just let him know how you feel.
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    Mar 16, 2013, 11:24 PM
    If you don't like him, what is the problem? You don't have to like someone just because they like you. You politely let them know you don't feel the same way.
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    Mar 16, 2013, 11:46 PM
    I guess you like him. If not don't bother whatever he write or say. Stop that secret friend whatever. No need to get stress for someone you don't like.
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    Mar 17, 2013, 02:47 AM
    Thanks for your answers! I know I shouldn't and I don't want to feel bad or anything but I just don't know what should I do to stop it because it's driving me crazy.
    I know that I don't like that guy. He actually is not one of my most favourite people.
    At one time he even bullied me a little bit but now we were friendlier with each other and I started seeing this "crush thing" going on. I don't want to look like I'm in the center of attention or anything, I just don't know what to do to not feel like I am feeling now.

    p.s. sorry for my writing mistakes lol.
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    Mar 17, 2013, 04:06 AM
    Undesired attention, how to avoid? Ignore the guy and if possible make him realize that you don't consider him as friend and ignore him.
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    Mar 17, 2013, 07:45 AM
    You speak when he speaks to you, otherwise you ignore him or you tell him to leave you alone.
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    Mar 17, 2013, 02:52 PM
    I still don't understand the problem - if you are somehow mandated to be his secret friend, do that and then walk away. If he wants more from you than you care to give, tell him.

    If he is harassing you, tell him that.

    You will like plenty of people in your lifetime who don't like you back - you don't need to love everyone or even like them.

    I'd be civil and leave it at that.

    As far as the list of the prettiest girls in the class this sounds very Junior High and he sounds very shallow.

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