[NigerianCookie]

Ok me and my ex were dating on and off for about 10 months, then we broke up because she was lying to me always and she cheated and was always listening to everyone else to want to break us up. But yes it takes two to tango, so yeah I fought her a few times. Now every time she sees me in the hallway, me and her walk past each other of course cause we had a nasty breakup. She's lied on me many occasions trying to get me in trouble with the principle saying I'm harassing her, when I do no such thing and every time she gets denied because they know its not true.

Every time someone asks her about me she says she's over me and she's sick of me. Just recently I got sick of the things she's saying about me and I went to my councilor on what I should do and she wanted to file a police bullying report but I told her no I want to give her the benefit of the doubt like I'm always doing. So they wanted to set up an mediation so me and her can work it out. Today when she found out she went up and down the hallways yelling the principle and me need the mediation and she's sick of me. But truth is I'm only trying to save her.

What kills me is I keep caring for her but every time I do she gives me her *** to kiss, she dates the friends we use to hang out with, she down talks me, she claims she don't want to talk to me and she's don't, but every time its always something. Maybe its me just trying to hang on to something that's already gone, or maybe she just never cared as much as I did in the relationship. That I care and cry for her everyday and she sits there having a great love life its seems to me chilling. I don't know what to do anymore.

So, ONE, what should I do? And TWO do you think she's probably out to get me, or just seeking attention in a negative way cause she's hurt?

[talaniman]

Probably best to ignore her and distance yourself and stop this emotional reaction to her. Time to stop trying to save her and get the hell out of her life. That's what you do to this crazy nut ball. Don't even try to understand her.

[fredg]

I agree with your first answer... get away from her. She is nothing but trouble, and will be for you as long as you pay attention to her. Try your best to ignore her, and just walk away. Good luck.

[Fr_Chuck]

Don't even speak to her, don't look at her, igore any text, don't open a email, don't answer if she calls, and if you do, just hang up.

Igmore her completely, she is in control as long as you seem to still care

[Oliver2011]

Move on with your life. The more you give her attention the worse her behavior will become. Let her find her next victim. Hanging on doesn't do you any good so forget her and find someone nice to date.