[8771Alex]

I'm 14 and in 8th grade. I don't know why I can't find a girlfriend. I'm nice to girls, I help them out, comfort them when they're sad, talk to them on the hallways. One other issue is that the girl I would most like to date is one of my best friends. We're like brother and sister. I'm decently attractive, smart, I make girls laugh, I just don't get it. Any feedback would be great

[smoothy]

Worry about school right now... consider yourself lucky to not have the distraction right now.

After you graduate you have all the time in the world for that... and at least THEN you will be dealing with something that might actually go someplace except to cause you problems.

You don't have enough time to focus on school AND deal with girls.

I'm a guy... I've been there before... in school they are far more trouble than they are worth... but once you finish school... and have your education... then they are fun to have around.

I've got my engineering Degree... a successful job... AND a good wife that makes most men my age jealous.

You can have it all... but only if you get your priorities straight in life now before you screw them up.

[Oliver2011]

Don't pressure yourself. You have plenty of time for that to happen. It needs to happen naturally and not be forced by you. Trust me, we all fall for someone and you will as well. You will be just fine.