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    Feb 25, 2013, 07:57 AM
    Girlfriend asks for some time to think
    Hey everyone, so I was dating a girl from my school for a month, we spent a lots of time together, and we both were really happy. But since a week ago she started to act weird. We almost didn't meet that week and today she asked for some time to talk. So we talked after school about a hour, and she explained that she wants some time to think about our relationship, then she told me that she likes older man (she's 15 and I'm 16), like 25 years old, then she told me that she doesn't like my friends and that I smoke. I am quitting smoking for like 2 weeks and now I smoke 1 cigarette per day. I don't know why she hate my friends and also I think the fact that she likes man 10 years older than her is absurd, because it's more like babysitting than relationship. So maybe she is testing me if I really have feelings for her ? I give a lot of presents like chocolate or flowers to her. So what is the problem ? I can't really understand her and I can't find any logical explanations for it. Help please ? (Sorry for my bad english)
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    Feb 25, 2013, 08:00 AM
    You have been dating for a month and she is just not feeling you anymore. I'm sure you are a very nice young man, just not the one she wants to be with now.
    Leave her alone.
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    Feb 25, 2013, 08:04 AM
    She's not into you and is interested in someone else. Time to save yourself and walk away from her. You're young, you will find someone, just give it time... don't be in a rush.

    As a side note, if she's serious about this older guy, he could potentially wind up in heaps of trouble if he goes through with it.
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    Feb 25, 2013, 08:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You have been dating for a month and she is just not feeling you anymore. I'm sure you are a very nice young man, just not the one she wants to be with now.
    Leave her alone.
    Thanks for advice, but I want to know if there is a possibility that she will want for our relationship to continue, or it's over for 100% ?
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    Feb 25, 2013, 08:08 AM
    I would say it is over. Usually when someone says they want a break, they want to break up.
    Time to move on.
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    Feb 25, 2013, 08:09 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I would say it is over. Usually when someone says they want a break, they want to break up.
    Time to move on.
    Okay, thanks :)
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