[Shannon292011]

Me and my boyfriend Liam have been together for over a year now and I feel like he is drifting away and I feel like I can't tell him stuff. Like this one time he was constantly talking to this girl... Megan and they had a lot of fun together , they could relate , had the same humour stuff like that. It was OK till my friends started saying stuff like 'He's having a nice time with Megan... agan... ' and 'It's like she's his girlfriend... she may as well be with the amout of time they spend together'. So I started getting jealous. Then he told me that Megan sent a text to her friend Jasmine and Jasmine showed Liam the text. He told me and... I was heartbroken , I felt like I was going to lose him. To make it even worse he still spent a lot of time with her , I held that in too. Until I couldn't take it anymore... He didn't see what he had done to me... and it still hurts now , over a year on! Every time I look at him I see them together... It's killing me... But every time I talk to him about it he gives me a lecture and has a go at me... He doesn't get how much it hurt... So what should I do?

[Wondergirl]

It sounds like you are making a mountain out of a molehill -- so much drama! Poor Liam! I'm guessing you are maybe 14?

Stop with the drama, have trust in him, and stop listening to every story any girl (or guy) tells you about Liam.

If you talk about this stuff with Liam, you are going to drive him away all by yourself