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    Jun 24, 2011, 07:19 PM
    How can I find my birth child if there was a closed adobtion?
    I'm asking for my mother but my mother has been on a frantic search to find her birth child.. and me being the awesome daughter I am I've agreed to help her out I don't really know where to start I've tried just a general search of her birth name and birthdate I don't even know if she knows she's adopted? I was wondering if anyone could tell me what would be the next step?
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    Jun 24, 2011, 07:23 PM

    There is little you can do, some states allow you to send a letter to be keep with the birth and adoption file if the child searches.

    Or you find and post on 100's of the adoption sites hoping they find you
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    Jun 24, 2011, 08:04 PM

    How old is the child now?
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    Dec 5, 2012, 07:30 AM
    I am in a similar situation as your mother. I gave up my son through a (closed) adoption 25 years ago. I would like to find him, as I always hoped I could meet him again someday. Any resources or tips would be great.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 11:25 PM
    23 born on July 13 1989
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    Jan 4, 2013, 11:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lizzy_lizzy209 View Post
    23 born on july 13 1989
    Are you there
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    Jan 4, 2013, 11:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
    How old is the child now?
    23 born July 13 1989
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    Jan 5, 2013, 09:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lizzy_lizzy209 View Post
    23 born july 13 1989
    Are you the original poster of this question? If not, I will move your question to its own place so that you can get relevant answers without taking away from someone else's question.

    If the child was born in 89, you should be able to register on reunion websites to see if the child is also looking to reconnect.
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    Feb 20, 2013, 07:02 PM
    Lizzie, please email me about specifics on this this adoption. I have the same birthday EMAIL REMOVED
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    Feb 20, 2013, 07:05 PM
    We do not allow off site contact here.

    You may discuss any similarities on this thread, or you may stay and post enough to have access to private messages, but any emails, addresses, or telephone numbers posted publicly will be removed.
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    Apr 15, 2013, 09:09 AM
    You should go to www.adopted.com.

    Todd W.

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