[ashie123]

Is it illegal for me to date my 24 year old boyfriend even though I am 15?

[Wondergirl]

Does he know he is your boyfriend?

What do your parents say?

[ashie123]

Yh he does as, no they don't

[Wondergirl]

yh he does as, no they dont

Please tell your parents you want to date a man who is 9-10 years older than you are. Please let us know what they say.

[ashie123]

I don't know how to say it though

[Wondergirl]

Uh, you just say it.

[ashie123]

But what happens if they reject me

[Wondergirl]

They won't reject you. They will say no, that you are too young to date, especially a young man who is in a whole different time from you. He is starting in his career and adult life and you are just a young immature person in early high school (if that).

I cannot imagine what you two have in common.

[ashie123]

We have loads though

[Wondergirl]

we have loads tho

Name five things.

[ashie123]

Mind set

How much we love each other
Hobbies

[Wondergirl]

Mindset means what?

Does he tell you that you are pretty and have a good figure and are smart? Does he hold hands with you and kiss you and hug you?

[ScottGem]

There are no laws about dating. However, you are likely to be under the age of consent which means any sexual activity could get him jailed.

However, until you are 18 you have to abide by your parent's rules. Therefore you NEED to tell them immediately.

How did you meet this person? How long have you known him?

[ashie123]

Mindset means what?

Does he tell you that you are pretty and have a good figure and are smart? Does he hold hands with you and kiss you and hug you?

no he doesn't say that I am smart but he says the rest

There are no laws about dating. However, you are likely to be under the age of consent which means any sexual activity could get him jailed.

However, until you are 18 you have to abide by your parent's rules. Therefore you NEED to tell them immediately.

How did you meet this person? How long have you known him?

He has done some research and found out that I can move out and into his house when I turn sixteen

[Wondergirl]

he has done some research and found out that i can move out and into his house when i turn sixteen

When will you turn 16?

What about school?

[ashie123]

I will go to the same school still

[ScottGem]

Where do you live. That is not usual. Also for him to tell you that raises red flags. Do you want to leave your parents? Do you realize moving in with him could end your relationship with your parents.

Please answer my questions about how you met and how long you have known him.

[ashie123]

We met at a party a coule of years ago and I don't mind about lossing the relationship with my parents as I haven't got one with my mum, I live in suffolk england

[ScottGem]

So a 22 yr old started a relationship with a 13 yr old? And what were you at 13 doing at a party where there were aduts?

You need to run from this guy. He has pedophile written all over him.

[JudyKayTee]

Keep in mind that if this is behind your parents' backs and/or without their permission he can be arrested for custodial interference.

Of course, if you're having sex (and that includes oral sex) he definitely can go to jail.

Why is he, at his age, dating girls your age? He should be out of college, working on a career, and you're a sophomore in high school? Interesting.

I don't know what "mindset" means - ?

If you are too young to figure out how to ask/tell your parents you are too young to date him. And he doesn't have the manhood to ask/tell your parents that you are dating? Anyone who encourages you to sneak around is not good dating material.