[Searchforwhat]

My girlfriend and I have been together just over a year. She lives in Poland, me in Ireland. She lived in Ireland for the first 8 months but then had to move home. The distance thing has never been an issue, seeing her in the airport every month or second month is the most amazing feeling. We were on holiday for our anniversary recently with friends and things fell apart now she is saying she doesn't see me in the same light anymore things are no longer fun for her. The holiday was for 10 days, we fought for the first 5 and were calm for the second 5 but were more friendly than like a couple. However since we got back the vibes have been bad and now she is gone back to Poland. Sometimes she texts me sad or cries on Skype then when I act sad she refutes it and tells me to stop telling her these things. I'm not sure what to do, do I leave contact all together? Do I go after and be the first to contact her? Do I act as normal in texts? Etc. Should I try to move on even though it seems something is still there? I have a feeling that could be crucial giving her this space but we all know the heart rules the head so all I want to do is contact her. Help...

[Jbs100]

As tempting as it is its best not to go chasing after her. What ever the underlying reason is she is indicating that she wants to put a bit of space between you and the best way to annoy her is not respecting that. I would just lie low for a while and get in with your normal day to day. I have been in your situation before and always found that by not trying the girl would make contact with me.