[ScaredTeen15]

Hello, I'm in fear I might be pregnant. I lost my virginity about 10 days ago. In between then and now I've done it about 4 Times. Twice without protection. The two times with no protection, my boyfriend did not inside of me. Once without it though, my boyfriend pulled out for it. He came, got it completely off. Then put it back in. Sorry this question might be vulgar but I really need help. Please don't say buy a test or go to the doctor. I need advice from a person on here. Thank you.

[ScaredTeen15]

The question is do you think I might be pregnant?

[odinn7]

It's possible that you are but there is no way for us to really know.

What truly amazes me is that the times you were doing it, there was no worry. You didn't use protection... so obviously you didn't care if it happened or not. Now, you are worried.

Did you know that pull out is not very reliable? And when he wiped it off and went back in for more... that was worthless. Wiping it off does nothing. He still has plenty inside that is dripping out and will continue to for a while.

So now you're scared... But to fully answer your question. We don't know if you're pregnant or not. It is way too soon for anyone to know. Even a test will not show it at this point. You will just have to wait it out and see.

And I would suggest that if you don't want to be a mother and bring yet another unwanted child in to this world, then you stop having sex until you both are responsible enough to worry about and understand the consequences of what you are doing.

[teacherjenn4]

I absolutely agree with the above advice from Odinn. If you don't want to get pregnant, you need to use protection. Having sex causes pregnancy, so stop having sex until you are ready to be a parent. No protection is 100% effective, so you need to realize that every time you have sex, you have a chance to get pregnant. Not using protection is foolish if you aren't ready to become a parent.

[ScaredTeen15]

Thank you I really needed the truth and not people beating around the bush

[teacherjenn4]

Thank you I really needed the truth and not people beating around the bush

Why didn't you use protection if you don't want to get pregnant?

[ScaredTeen15]

Because I wasn't well educated. I figured if he didn't inside me then we'd be fine. That's what I've been told my whole life. Plus it was spur of the moment type stuff. I have none of the early sign symptoms. Only anxiety.

[teacherjenn4]

Because I wasn't well educated. I figured if he didn't inside me then we'd be fine. that's what I've been told my whole life. plus it was spur of the moment type stuff. I have none of the early sign symptoms. only anxiety.

There are no signs or symptoms at this early point, so you have no way of knowing. In fact, you won't know until about 2 weeks after you miss your period. When do you expect your next period?

[ScaredTeen15]

I'm ssuppose to get it in a week or less

[teacherjenn4]

I'm ssuppose to get it in a week or less

If you don't get your period, wait two weeks and take a test with your first morning urine. If you do, consider yourself lucky this time, and see a doctor for information and birth control.

[ScaredTeen15]

So if I get my normal period, same flow, same amount of days I have it, does that mean I'm fine?

[teacherjenn4]

So if I get my normal period, same flow, same amount of days I have it, does that mean I'm fine?

It should be. Have you seen a gynecologist?

[teacherjenn4]

So if I get my normal period, same flow, same amount of days I have it, does that mean I'm fine?

The reason I said you should be is because some women have what appear to be periods when they are pregnant. If you are sexually active, you should be under the care of a gynecologist.

[ScaredTeen15]

No I haven't told my parents... I don't plan on telling them until I know for sure:/

[teacherjenn4]

So if I get my period, normal.flow and normal.time I have it for...am I okay?

Read my post... you should be. Please see a gynecologist for the information you need. The doctor will help you choose the birth control method that is best for you.

[ScaredTeen15]

Thank y poo u for your help

[teacherjenn4]

no I haven't told my parents...I don't plan on telling them until I know for sure:/

Eventually, if you aren't already, you will become pregnant without multiple methods of birth control. Are you saying you'd rather talk to them about a pregnancy rather than seeing a doctor?

[ScaredTeen15]

Thank you for your help... sorry auto correct..

[teacherjenn4]

thank you for your help...sorry auto correct..

You're welcome. Good luck and let us know what happens.

[ScaredTeen15]

My parents would literally kill me. And the boy I did it with just turned 18 (senior in high school) so I know they will try and press charges on him for rape and everything...