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    Jan 23, 2013, 10:44 AM
    Vaginal issues after birth
    I have a baby over s and a half years now and my vagina is not the same since , I produce way more fluid and the tightness is just not there. Is there a procedure that I can do to fix this?
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    Jan 23, 2013, 10:52 AM
    How do you know the tightness is not there? Have you done Kegels (exercises)?
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    Jan 23, 2013, 10:54 AM
    Read up on this..

    Kegel exercises: A how-to guide for women - MayoClinic.com

    That will restore your muscle tone if done correctly.
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    Jan 23, 2013, 11:03 AM
    Yes I have done the kegel exercise, well my partner says he feels the difference and even my labia is just not te usual size is bigger. Like it has stretched. Is there a medical procedure to fix it?
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    Jan 23, 2013, 11:06 AM
    Perhaps it's not you being looser, but your partner who is smaller. Is he saying, "Now that you've had a baby...."? The vagina goes back to its normal size after a baby has been born, and Kegels done faithfully have a great reputation of making vaginal muscles stronger.
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    Jan 23, 2013, 11:08 AM
    Well its not just him because I am conscious of it as well and that's why it's a concern for me and I really want to change that. Sigh :-(
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    Jan 23, 2013, 11:12 AM
    Look at it from this perspective... I'm a guy telling you this remember.

    Tight is good for a short quick sprint if that's all you want... but if you want to run a marathon, you need a little wiggle room.

    In other words... don't obsess about it. Do it to make yourself happy... he's going to be happy any way around it.
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    Jan 23, 2013, 11:15 AM
    LOL... I get what your saying I don't want a vagina that's like a virgin but at least a little effort to enter . And it makes it harder on me because I produce a lot of fluid sigh I guess I am just uncomfortable.
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    Jan 23, 2013, 12:00 PM
    I think a lot of women put way too much emphasis on that one thing... when to a guy as long as you can't park a mobile home in it.. we are happy as clams.

    And if you get to that point figuratively of course... there is likely other physical issues at play... which a gynecologist would be best suited to recommend. Some of them well beyond what Kegels could help.
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