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    Rawr_its_andrew Posts: 17, Reputation: 2
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    Jan 24, 2009, 12:50 AM
    Sex With A Virgin.
    Ok Me and my partner have been talking about sex and she's a virgin,
    What I was wondering is, what's the best way to do it,
    Like do I just do it like I normally do or do I need to do something different?
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    Jan 24, 2009, 05:31 AM

    Take it very slow, keep communication open, stop if she says stop, go if she says go.

    Think a lot about the setting and the lead up before hand because, and not to make you nervous or anything, this will be a night she remembers for the rest of her life.

    No pressure :p
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    Jan 24, 2009, 07:49 PM

    Make sure she is ready to go through with it before you start... if she has an intact hymen, which you will find out as you gently poke around her sl1t, you are going to have to ram your penis in to rip the hymen skin in order to insert your penis into her vagina.

    Again, make sure she is old enough and mature enough to go through the deflowering process. :)
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    Jan 24, 2009, 07:58 PM

    I have no way of knowing what you usually do but I would suggest that this be different.

    Be sure you have a lot of foreplay.Begin very gently and slowly and allow her to set the tempo.
    Make certain she knows you will stop at any time if she changes her mind.Without any bad feelings or regrets.Let her know you want this to be a good experience for her as well as you.
    Nerves may prevent her from becoming as moist as she may need for penetration so bring a lubricant,such as ky jelly.
    Show love and respect and tenderness.
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    Jan 21, 2013, 07:06 PM
    If she is a virgin you need to take it slow with her love her and make sure she is comfortable and you are not hurting her
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    Jan 22, 2013, 10:27 AM
    Please realize that this post is FOUR years old. When the last message was posted Obama had just taken office and George Bush was starting to become a memory.

    They're not going to see your advice. Please look at the date of the last post before you respond to a thread.

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