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Jovenbear · Jan 20, 2013, 03:35 PM

I had a good first date Friday and he says he wants to go slow but how slow is slow? Also he said he wants to see me again but I have hardly heard from him and I'm about ready to say forget it. Help!

Homegirl 50 · Jan 20, 2013, 04:01 PM

You have hardly heard from him? It's just Sunday. Why can't you call him?

talaniman · Jan 20, 2013, 06:50 PM

At least give the guy until next Friday. Maybe call Monday, Or amuse yourself and have your own fun, that's what I would if they want to go slow after one date. Maybe he has other dating options and opportunities for dates or fun without you.

I would imagine most single guys would. How old are you both, and how well do you know each other? Do you date others, or often?

Let me guess you met online.

Fr_Chuck · Jan 20, 2013, 08:08 PM

You said "hardly" heard, what does that mean, he has called or text you 3 times ? No times?

If you want to talk to him, guess what it works both ways, you are free to call him

ArmstrongMiller · Jan 20, 2013, 08:37 PM

Maybe it's just an excuse...

Jovenbear · Jan 21, 2013, 10:32 PM

I texted him once on Saturday and once on Sunday. Both times he said he was busy so I left him alone today. Figured if I texted him again today it would be a little much. He hasn't contacted me today so who knows.

I don't want to smother him. Taking the chance of seeming desperate.

talaniman · Jan 21, 2013, 11:05 PM

He better have a great excuse to explain his being busy, but I sure wouldn't contact him again, or get carried away by one good date. Date someone else.