[Sweetie534]

I left my boyfriend to marry my husband and after 3 years of marriage things have become worst and worst. I have been abused physically, ignored, and lost the person I have been. My husband spends most of his time between work and home. He is not an outgoing person. My flame for my ex boyfriend is still there. Me and my are having daily conversation and sex over the Internet. We are deeply in live with each other. But he recently have a kid with another woman. What should I do ?

[JudyKayTee]

Just so I've got this straight - you are married with a second "kid" on the way. Your boyfriend is single but is having a "kid" with his girlfriend/another woman.

If you want to be with your boyfriend the answer is to divorce your husband and marry your boyfriend.

If you are being abused you must report the abuse.

Is it too late for counselling, either alone or together?

On the other hand as long as you are "deeply in love" with your boyfriend your marriage is going to fail. Your current situation is unfair to your husband, your boyfriend's current girlfriend and yourself. You are having an affair whether you want to call it "deeply in love" or not. Sexting on the Internet when you're married with one child and another on the way? Sounds like high school boredom to me.

Do everyone a favor and stop sneaking around.

[Thirdtime]

You are seeing a fake painted picture of you and him lovingly together ever after! Can you see the deception here?
While he is manipulating you in the net he actually love his woman.That is why he had a baby.
Of you... I think that little stupid flame you mentioned is an excuse to exaggerate the resentment you got for your husband at home. It is hard to find a man who loves to work hard and love his home. You should be proud of him.